I just saw a Facebook status that said "just like a shoe, if someone is meant for you, they would fit just perfectly ... No forcing, no struggling and no pain" and I beg to disagree.
Sometimes I feel that's the crux of our marriage problems. This whole Cinderella complex. All about perfection this and perfection that. We are imperfect people! How can we create a perfect union???
Relationships are a lot of work ... On one's self. There really is no point in trying to change your partner. Change your outlook! Make up your mind that you will give 100% over and over again. And sometimes you may have to give up. Sometimes you do. Our life is usually a sum total of our choices and sometimes you make a bad one and if leaving a relationship is the only way to salvage it. Then you have to do. We enter into relationships with too many blinders on and sometimes it takes a minute for people are mature enough to realize this is it! We need to just go on and work on it.
It's this realization that turns good relationships to great relationships. So can we quit envying the greener grass on the other side and water our own lawns?

posted by lala @ 6:25 PM

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